How's his telepathy coming on?
One of the things that often causes strange problems in a relationship, is when one partner wants the other to treat them in a certain way, but part of the thing they want is that the other partner must telepathically intuit the longed for behaviour for themselves. The reason being: that if they have to spell out to their partner exactly what they want, then it will not be genuine. This often happens with women in the area of romance. They want their man to "romance" them. they know in great detail exactly how it would go, but they fail to give many clues to the unsuspecting husband. And even if they do leave clues, most young husbands are not in super-sleuth mode. That only comes with age, when men finally realise that women mostly like to communicate with clues and indirect references. At that point, the clever husband starts hunting for clues, but he will still have a hard time working on what's really lacking - telepathy!
So why not throw the poor dog a bone here? Realise that if you want to be treated in a certain way, only a scheming charmer is going to work it all out in advance. And these people seldom have their dinner guest's best interests at heart. Telling someone what you like and how you like it is not against the rules. It may still not provoke quite the reality you wanted, but at least it may produce something that can be worked on.
With men, the desire for telepathy tends to manifest in the area of sex. They have a burning desire to experience such and such a fantasy, but they fear that mentioning it will invite laughter or worse - ridicule and disgust. The other thing they may be thinking is something along the lines of "if she really dug me she would be doing it already". Of course, saying what you want may well be met with shock and rejection, but it's not 100% guaranteed.
© MT
